29/01/12

the other crazy Idea

Kinda cute idea *narsis.... just saw a saturday night party at Cihampelas Walk @ warung talaga they perform "Sundanese enggrang " so so cuteeeee, they act like ' si cepot and gareng " I want they to perform in my wedding.... hopefully Z approve my purpose..... :)
http://obinousbourne.blogspot.com/ love they style muchhhhhhh xoxo

28/01/12

Wedding Website

there is a lot of web that offer free wedding website

not important, but if you have a time, just do it... its fun... trust me

I create wedding website on : http://www.weddingwire.com/zakifani

27/01/12

Target lock : [Biofarma]

Finally.... the target lock

for our reception venue, we decided to use BIOFARMA bismillah

Advantages ;

1. Panggung pelaminan permanen
2. Ruangan Full AC
3. Sound System
4. Kamar rias
5. Toilet
6. Kursi susun 200 buah
7. Tempat parkir hingga 125 kendaraan
8. Keamanan & Petugas parkir
9. Listrik 20.000 Watt + Genset
10. Surat Izin Keramaian
11. Masjid & perlengkapan akad nikah
12. Lokasi dekat tol pasteur, mudah untuk tamu dari luar kota
13. Parkir luas, keamanan terjaga
14. Gedung hanya perlu dekorasi sedikit saja
15. Akses angkutan umum mudah

Disadvantage;

1. Lokasi rawan macet
2. Mesjid kurang besar


so, after we review about advantages and disadvantages, we decided to booked it tomorrow...




Contact Person
: Bpk Budi 08157189149
Price : 15 juta
to check availability of biofarma : http://gsgbiofarma.blogspot.com/2011/11/waktu-tersedia-2012-semester-2.html

















Strong effect of Luwak Coffee

1 cup of hot luwak coffee with a small tsp sugar
1 album of Abdul and the coffee theory songs
1 Transport processes and unit operation book by C. Geankoplis
1 notes
1 pencil
1 calculator
2 eyes open
1 hand ready to write
1 brain to learn
0 friend to accompany
------------------------------------------------------------------ +
1 passion to learn

Happy weekend everyone..... Happy exam day for me :)
xoxo

26/01/12

Bridezilla Syndrome



to many things should be arrange by my self

Breeze Freeze Windy ....





Too windy breeze freeze Bandung....... *sneezing

25/01/12

List Gedung Pernikahan Bandung 2012

1. PusDai (Pusat Dakwah Islam). Lokasi Jl. Diponegoro Bandung.
Nama gedung : Bale Asri
Luas gedung : 1200 M2
Harga : Siang 26 juta ; waktu pakai : 06.00-14.00
Malem 26,7 juta ; waktu pakai : 15.30 - 22.00


2. Balai Sartika. Lokasi Jl. Suryalaya, Buah Batu Bandung
Nama gedung : Balai Sartika

Harga : Siang / Malam 17.850.000



3. Kologdam, Jl. Aceh Bandung (depan GOR Saparua)
Nama gedung : Muhammad Toha
Luas : 756 M2 plus sayap kanan 972 M2
Harga : Siang 10 jt waktu pakai 07.00-14.00
Malam 10,5 jt waktu pakai 15.00 - 22.00

catering rekanan, destiny termasuk
full booked until March 2013


4. Seskoad - Gedung Satria Jl. Gatot Subroto 22.7311041 Mr. Joko Rp. 10.000.000,- catering rekanan, destiny ngga termasuk
kalo ngga pake caterung rekanan, kena charge 5 jt

5. Biofarma - Jl pasteur
15 jt + mesjid + listrik 20000 watt


6. Graha tirta siliwangi
45 juta 4 jam

7. Nu art
sewa tempat 30 jt, catering luar charge 30 %
rekanan nu art = destiny catering
paket 1000 org all in 120 jt

8. the centreum , sebelah sma 5 bandung
15 jt 6 jam
catering bisa dari dalam 20 jt per 200 pax, semi outdoor

9. Bumi sangkuriang, cimbuleuit
catering harus dari dalam, 98000 per pax, maksimum 1000 org include biaya gedung

10. Maximo
setiabudi, sewa 10 jt , outdoor

11. the kartipah, dago
98 jt per 750 pax, parkir agak sempit, makanan wajib dari dalam

12. Seraton Hotel
1000 pax 198jt , all in


I prefer to booked Biofarma for our wedding... ^.^

We are getting married ...



8 September 2012 ....

a lot of things to do .... a lot of things to prepare ...

but we are very happy to share it with all of u friend

how to prepare our big day ....










*taken by Febri Aviant , anita's groom


so from this day...... we start count down ......

Silly pra-engagement pictures

We made it by our self....

use self timer mode ... and a black book

love it muchhhhhhhhhh
































persiapan Lamaran...

Dear bride wanna be....

kemarin sebelum lamaran, panik bin stress, karena really dunno what to do

apa aja yang harus disiapin, apa aja acaranya..di awal mikirnya, lamaran itu cuma ibu dan bapaknya Z dateng kerumah, ketemu bapa ibu... ngobrol maksud dan tujuannya lalu selesai deh....

TER-NYA-TA.... is not that simple ....

so let me share for you yahhhh

1. Setelah si cowok ngelamar secara pribadi, masing-masing harus diskusi sama orang tua, tentang tanggal melamar, ketika kedua belah pihak udah sepakat baru deh tentuin tanggal yang tepat untuk lamaran. Karena pihak cowok akan datang ke rumah kita, maka pastinya persiapan akan lebih ribet di pihak cewek

2. Makanan, tanyain ke pihak cowok berapa orang keluarga yang akan datang ke acara lamaran, tanya juga ke pihak orang tua kita, kira-kira saudara yang akan datang berapa orang, soo kita bisa estimasi berapa jumlah makanan yang dibutuhkan.
Tips : makanan jangan yang terlalu repot seperti soto ayam, bubur ayam, dll
bisa dipilih makanan ringan seperti somay bandung, batagor, buah2an, kue basah

3. Dekorasi rumah , agar lebih cantik... rumah bisa kita pasangi dengan sedikit tenda, ditambah bunga-bunga di sudut ruangan, tambahan kursi *jika perlu

4. Pangjejeg , jika memakai adat sunda, biasanya pihak pria akan membawa hantaran berupa uang dan juga pengikat lainnya. untuk nominal uang, biasanya 10 % dari total jumlah yang akan diberikan untuk resepsi. Dan pangjejeg lain, bisa berupa cincin, kalung atau yg lainnya..... untuk saya.... berhubung ga doyan pake cincin yg terlalu banyak, (nanti bakalan ada cincin kawin kann ), saya minta Z buat beli koin logam mulia khamsa.....



* if you want to wrap your present like this, please come to Grow Jl Pager Gunung, near Boromeus hospital

5. Biasanya pihak cowok akan membawa beberapa makanan, misalnya parcel buah, cake , dll dan pihak cewek harus mempersiapkan hantaran yg bisa dibawa pulang oleh pihak cowok

6. Perwakilan dari pihak cowok dan cewek, seperti narator, yang menyatakan maksud dan tujuan kedatangan ( hahaha padahal kan udah tau sama tau niatnya mau ngelamar )

7. tahapan acara
- si cowok dan keluarganya datang ke rumah sang cewek ( pada saat ini si cewek masih sembunyi )
- lalu disambut oleh pihak cewek, kemudian setelah semuanya berkumpul, perwakilan dari pihak cewek akan membuka acara, dan akan langsung mempertanyakan maksud dan tujuan keluarga cowok datang ke rumah sang cewek
- perwakilan pihak cowok lalu menjelaskan, jika belum ada yang meminang, si cewek akan diminang oleh si cowok
- pihak cewek : menyatakan bahwa si cewek belum ada yang meminang dan bersedia di pinang oleh sang cowok, tapiii si perwakilan menanyakan , memang sudah yakin calonnya yang itu ? apa tidak salah orang * hahaha kind of dramaaaa , lalu si cewek di panggil
- pihak cowok : menyatakan bahwa benar yang itu calonnya, lalu menanyakan langsung pada si cewek apakah mau dilamar.
- setelah itu lalu penentuan tanggal oleh kedua org tua
- acara makan
- ramah tamah, kenalan keluarga
- penyerahan pangjejeg
- penyerahan buah tangan untuk keluarga cowok
- selesaiiiiiii

semoga membantu buat para bride wanna be..... XOXO

Engagement day 10-12-11

I'm so Happy today.... Z too...
10-12-11 we officially engaged...

our theme is gold and brown today...
lots of family come to my house.... we had a great time.. great food...

so I'll share to u lil bit pictures



*Thanks for coming my dearest best friend *smooch



Beloved FAMILY...



* The nervous Z



* The nervous me



*living room





*me with Anit...




Me and Z pose *almost forget to take this picture

anyway.... thanks to Zaki's family, My family, my best friend.... xoxo

Finally ... Officialy engaged


finally..... after alonggggg time ago.... never share anything .....
let me share about my engagement process ....

first ,
I guess all women in the world have a same dream about engagement
the man kneel down, on perfect place... perfect moment....and his said " will u marry me " .... and with bubbly face we said " I DO ", continue with a deepest hugs

but for me....
there is no kneel down hahaaa....
Z:"how if we getting marriage ?"
me: "hmmmmm u sure ?"
Z: "i'm sure, i think i'm ready know.. "
me:" mmmm oke... lets getting marriage than"
Z: " I'll tell my family to come to your house , maybe on the next Saturday "
me: " hmmmmm "

yaaaaa just simple like that..... but I'm still purpose him about my dream...
me : hei Z ..u know.... every girl in the world dreamed his boy friend to kneel down when ask about marriage ..
Z : "oh yaa ??"
me : " absolutely "
Z : " do you want it ? "
me : mmmmmmmm ( udah ga asik .... )

so... all my dream about asking marry is buyarrrrr, pyarrrr, duarrrrr
ya ya ya I know there is not SOP about asking marry someone , but .... time to time all man do that.....

so the end of story... Z and all his family will come to my home at 10-12-11, Saturday night..

so many preparation.... rent a tent, order food, prepare flowers, clothes, call family,and etc...

1 day before engagement day, me and Z go for lunch at Double Steak Jl. jawa, which is the first date place ....( ngga curiga sedikit pun... karena Z memang kurang romantis )

after finish eating, we purpose to buy a cake for engagement,...
anddddddddddd this is the romantic part begin... :
on the car ..... Z give me a bouquet of flower, and he said that,
I want to you become a mother of my son
I want you always beside me until the end of time
I know you, will be the best bride, the best wife , the best mother for me
now and forever
So Fani, Will u marry me ?

me : speachless, moveless


Surprise is always amazing.... XOXO Z

Money... cant buy everything ....

When We talk a lot about money:

How to get it, how to spend it, where to spend it, and how to save it.
For all the time we devote to talking about, worrying about, and dealing with money, you’d think it was the most important thing in the world. If the time spent obsessing about money truly equated to its worth, then there would be nothing that you couldn’t do or have without money. Money would be the only thing that mattered. But is money really as valuable as our obsession level leads us to believe?

Money is important, obviously. Without it we’d have no roof over our heads, food in our bellies or clothes on our backs. Money allows us to do and have more things than we can without it. It’s a means to an end. But, for all that money is useful and good to have around, for all that it can buy, there are quite a few things that it can’t buy. Even if you have millions of dollars, there are some things that you’ll never have with money alone. So what can’t money buy? Read on.

LOST TIME

Money cannot buy back lost time. As each day passes, it is lost and you can never get it back. When you miss that chance to say, “I love you,” to someone special, or you tell your kids, “Not now, I have to work,” that opportunity is gone. No amount of money that you make in the future will get that day, that moment, back.

HAPPONESS

It’s a cliche that money can’t buy happiness, but it’s also true. It can buy you some fun and fleeting joy-a cool vacation, a big TV, a fast car-but it can’t buy the true happiness that comes from liking yourself, having stable relationships, and good a familial support system.

HAPPY,WELL ADJUSTED KIDS

Money can buy your kids a lot of clothes, toys and gizmos, but it can’t turn them into secure, responsible, well-mannered, intelligent people. That only comes from the time you spend with them and the things you teach them. Money might be able to help with some aspects of parenting but it’s been proven many times that kids, once their basic needs are met, benefit more from parents spending time with them than the amount of money spent on them.

LOVE

It’s another cliche that money can’t buy love, but a true one. Money can buy initial attraction or even lust, but “true” love comes from mutual respect, caring for each other, sharing experiences, and growing together. There’s a reason that people who marry only for money rarely end up happy. Love at it’s best functions regardless of whether you have a lot of money or very little.

ACCEPTANCE

True, you can buy things that make you fit in-the latest cars, clothes, shoes, or electronics-but these things don’t represent true acceptance. If you really want to be accepted by your peers (beyond high school where a pair of shoes really does make you part of the in crowd), you’d do better to focus your energies on making yourself valuable to those around you. Being a good friend, a kind and helpful person, and someone who excels at what they do will go further to gain you acceptance than the stuff money can buy.

HEALTH

Money can buy healthcare and medicine, but it cannot replace health once it’s lost. It’s far better to take preventative action such as watching what you eat, exercising, not smoking, and getting regular physicals than to rely on money to save you once your body has started to fail you. Money also can’t buy back your youth. No amount of money you make in the future will replace those days when your body could do anything easily and look good doing it. You can spend thousands on “treatments” to preserve your youth, but it’s an illusion. Once your youth is gone, no amount of money will get it back.

SUCCESS

Some people succeed by being slimy and paying/bribing their way to the top. But these are the exception and I would hope you wouldn’t aspire to that. Success comes from hard work, applying your gifts in the best way possible, and paying your dues to move ahead in the world. There is very little that money can buy you to help you succeed. It might be able to buy you some training or equipment, but the majority of your success is determined by the work you put in, not the money you spend.

TALENT

People are born with certain talents. Money can certainly nurture a talent. You can buy music lessons or coaching sessions to nurture your talents, but money cannot buy a talent. You can learn to do certain things well-I’ve learned to play the piano after years of lessons-but the true gift to do it well can’t be bought. Even after years of lessons, I don’t have the ability to make the piano truly sing, whereas others in my family have had that talent from birth.

MANNERS

There are plenty of rich people who are rude and crude and plenty of poor people who demonstrate perfect manners and respect for others. And vice-versa. The amount of money you have doesn’t determine whether you behave well or poorly. Manners and classy behavior are not bought, they are taught and practiced at all levels of society by parents and family members who want to see their offspring behave well in society. Money doesn’t confer good behavior. Money can buy you entry into a better class position, but it cannot make you behave with class.

PEACE

If money could buy peace, I think we’d be there by now. Think of the amount of money that governments have spent over the years in the name of “peace.” Has it worked? Nope. Peace isn’t something you buy. I think peace only comes from acting fairly, humanely, and treating others (people and countries) as we would want to be treated. And even then, it might not be possible. But for sure money won’t buy it.

I’m not suggesting that you give up the pursuit of money and go on some monastic quest for deeper meaning. It is important to manage your money well, to educate yourself about money, and earn enough to secure your financial future. However, it pays to stop and think every now and then about the things you would still have even if you didn’t have money. Your family, your health, and your gifts and abilities aren’t determined by how much money you have. There are things that no amount of money can buy and it’s worthwhile to pursue them even as you worry about money. Money is important, but maybe it’s not the most important thing in the world.

06/01/12

keep in touch


somehow, I miss to be in touch with him
actually I cant remember when the last we meet, the last we being in touch
as far as I know, he flowing in my blood,at least
I loved to, but I cant, and I know maybe he felt the same
I never doubted about him, I know he love me so
I born with power of his love, and I always trust it
Everyone had a mistake , so do him
whatever that happened in the past, I forgive him....

on hundred days i'm getting married, I wish you still here
do some talk, heart to heart
do some fun, laughing together
hmmmm but im to naive.... I know I cant, u will never there...


I just hope you will happy for me.....
smile from there, wherever you are.....
love you always..... my dearst man....
my best man in the world... always keep in feeling touch....